As a former Magic Circle lawyer and law firm partner who now coaches legal professionals, I've witnessed firsthand how the pursuit of perfection can undermine leadership. Here's why authentic leadership matters more than flawless performance—and how embracing...
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The Game of Law: Winners, Losers, and What It’s Really About
Law is an elite profession. It attracts the most ambitious, talented, and high performers. So why is it that, once inside the system, so many fail to get promoted, fail to make partner, and ultimately fail to understand what it’s really all about?
Shifting from an Employee to an Entrepreneur Mindset: The Key to Reaching the Top
Partnership or director positions are often seen as the pinnacle of success in most fields. But there's a secret ingredient that many overlook on their journey towards these coveted roles. This critical element is the shift from an employee mindset to an entrepreneur...
People-Pleasing is Holding you Back Big Time
Every day, I witness a certain behaviour that consistently holds women (in particular) back in their professional growth. This common pattern is something I once struggled with, but when I managed to overcome it, my career took a significant turn for the better. In...
The Essential Role of Relationship-Building in Ascending to Law Firm Partnership
1. More Than Just Legal Acumen As a senior associate in a law firm, you’ve probably amassed a commendable understanding of the legal world and have a series of successful transactions and cases under your belt. Yet, while these achievements are important,...
Coaching: As Your Coach I’m Not Going to Fix You
In the world of personal development and coaching, there are many misconceptions. One of the most common is the idea that a coach is a 'fixer.' I'd like to debunk this myth. You're Not Broken Firstly, I want to make it crystal clear: I will NOT attempt to 'fix' you....
The Journey to Leadership: Are You Ready to Lead?
Taking on the mantle of leadership is no easy task. It's a challenging journey filled with self-discovery and required personal growth. It requires ample confidence, a dash of daring, and the ability to venture beyond your comfort zone. So, are you ready to embrace...
The Secret Ingredient to My Success in Law
Success, especially in a field as demanding as law, seldom comes down to just one factor. However, I believe there was one crucial element behind my achievements that I feel compelled to share, in the hope that you can harness its power for your own journey. That...
‘You’re Welcome’: The Game Changer in Your Professional Narrative
"You're welcome." Just two words, yet immensely powerful. They encapsulate a stance, a perspective, and an attitude towards your contribution in the professional space. The Understated Power of ‘You’re Welcome’ Consider these affirmations: "You're welcome that I'm a...
Empowerment, Not ‘Fixing’: My Coaching Philosophy
In the world of personal development and coaching, there's often a misconception. Many enter this space thinking they need 'fixing'. But if that's what you're seeking, I urge you to reconsider. Why I Don't Aim to 'Fix' You You Aren't Broken: The fundamental belief I...
Trust Your Instinct: The Key to Success for Lawyers
Every lawyer aiming for success must have one essential skill: knowing their own mind. But what does this mean? It means that you have a clear understanding of what you want, and that you can trust your own decisions. The Power of Advice Let's face it, we all ask...