(It’s always ugly and mostly goes under the radar). Here’s the reality: 👉 The majority of men I worked with in law were incredible people who I still have the utmost respect for. But there were some, with fragile egos, who, quite simply, wanted to have power ”over”...
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Shifting from an Employee to an Entrepreneur Mindset: The Key to Reaching the Top
Partnership or director positions are often seen as the pinnacle of success in most fields. But there's a secret ingredient that many overlook on their journey towards these coveted roles. This critical element is the shift from an employee mindset to an entrepreneur...
People-Pleasing is Holding you Back Big Time
Every day, I witness a certain behaviour that consistently holds women (in particular) back in their professional growth. This common pattern is something I once struggled with, but when I managed to overcome it, my career took a significant turn for the better. In...
The Essential Role of Relationship-Building in Ascending to Law Firm Partnership
1. More Than Just Legal Acumen As a senior associate in a law firm, you’ve probably amassed a commendable understanding of the legal world and have a series of successful transactions and cases under your belt. Yet, while these achievements are important,...
Coaching: As Your Coach I’m Not Going to Fix You
In the world of personal development and coaching, there are many misconceptions. One of the most common is the idea that a coach is a 'fixer.' I'd like to debunk this myth. You're Not Broken Firstly, I want to make it crystal clear: I will NOT attempt to 'fix' you....
The Journey to Leadership: Are You Ready to Lead?
Taking on the mantle of leadership is no easy task. It's a challenging journey filled with self-discovery and required personal growth. It requires ample confidence, a dash of daring, and the ability to venture beyond your comfort zone. So, are you ready to embrace...
The Secret Ingredient to My Success in Law
Success, especially in a field as demanding as law, seldom comes down to just one factor. However, I believe there was one crucial element behind my achievements that I feel compelled to share, in the hope that you can harness its power for your own journey. That...
‘You’re Welcome’: The Game Changer in Your Professional Narrative
"You're welcome." Just two words, yet immensely powerful. They encapsulate a stance, a perspective, and an attitude towards your contribution in the professional space. The Understated Power of ‘You’re Welcome’ Consider these affirmations: "You're welcome that I'm a...
Unlocking Your True Potential: A Guide for Aspiring Lawyers — Copy
In the world of personal development and coaching, there's often a misconception. Many enter this space thinking they need 'fixing'. But if that's what you're seeking, I urge you to reconsider. Why I Don't Aim to 'Fix' You You Aren't Broken: The fundamental belief I...
Trust Your Instinct: The Key to Success for Lawyers
Every lawyer aiming for success must have one essential skill: knowing their own mind. But what does this mean? It means that you have a clear understanding of what you want, and that you can trust your own decisions. The Power of Advice Let's face it, we all ask...
Unlocking Your True Potential: A Guide for Aspiring Lawyers
For every ambitious lawyer, there comes a moment of introspection: am I truly living up to my potential? Am I on the right path; one that aligns with my deepest sense of self? This is where coaching comes into the picture. The Power of Coaching A coach isn't just a...
Building Trust: Essential for Aspiring Lawyers
In any legal career, trust stands out as an indispensable element when it comes to the ingredients required for success. It is the assurance that when you commit to an action, it will be executed as agreed. However, it's worth noting that trust, once broken, is...